The Warning Signs - A PPD
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Sylvia Says
The Dos and Don'ts of Helping a Woman with PPD
 
 

 

"Baby Blues" occurs in about 80% of mothers, usually appearing during the first week after birth of the child, and can last up to three weeks. The symptons are moodiness, irritability, lack of concentration, sadness, anxiety and feelings of dependency. This too shall pass...

Postprtum Depression occurs in about 10 to 17 percent of mothers. Generally,symptons will arise in the first days after the birth of the child and can last as long. Because of the prevalence of the baby blues, doctors are reluctant to diagnose PPD in the first three weeks. Syptons include loss of appetite, insomnia, restlessness and fatigue.

Postpartum Psychosis occurs in 1 percent of mothers, usually stemming from unrated postpartum depression. The symptons include suicidaland even homicidal impulses. Women often experience auditory and visual hallucinations. These can trigger dangerous behavior, putting the lives of the mother and the baby at risk.
 


Say

You are not alone.

We are here for you.

We will get through this together.

Please let me help you-I can clean the house, talk, listen, stay over, Anything.

This is temporary. You will get well.

The baby will be fine, just worry about yourself.

This isn't your fault.

I love you.

 
Don't Say

You are not alone

Why are so down?Look at everything you have. You should be overjoyed.

Try to snap out of it.

Maybe you should take some medication.

Just think positive.

Do you know how many women would love to have babies and can't?

I don't know why you are making such a big deal. It's just a baby.

Women have been having babies for centuries. You are overreacting.